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Usually such songs are copyrighted. I'd suggest looking for MIDI music to start with, they are small, easy to find, and sound good in most cases.
For sound effects, I found a really good site with a lot of sound effects. Unfortunately I forgot the URl. I *DO* remember how I found it though. Search for "Air Raid Siren Wav" on Yahoo.